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Roger Ebert is an inspiration - clips from Oprah interview

Post by Vivacious J » Wed Mar 03, 2010 6:17 pm

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I watched these clips from his interview on Oprah yesterday and by the end I was in tears. Ebert and his wife Chaz have such an unconditional, respectful, loving relationship.

I cried not only because I feel compassion and admiration for Ebert, but also because I do not conceivably see myself ever having such a pure relationship. What about you? Do you think your partner (or future partner) would stick by you like this? Are you un-vain enough to love yourself after your appearance is completely altered and physical voice is taken away?
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Post by Epistemophobia » Wed Mar 03, 2010 6:19 pm

I don't know. I'm not as accomplished as Ebert. There's less reason to stick with me. But at that age, maybe.
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Post by Vivacious J » Wed Mar 03, 2010 6:20 pm

Epistemophobia wrote:I don't know. I'm not as accomplished as Ebert. There's less reason to stick with me. But at that age, maybe.
So you think age and success has everything to do with it? I agree to a certain extent. But...
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Post by Epistemophobia » Wed Mar 03, 2010 6:23 pm

Vivacious J wrote: So you think age and success has everything to do with it? I agree to a certain extent. But...
I'm just looking at possible factors.

If I were in her situation I don't see why I would leave.
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Post by Loose Seal » Wed Mar 03, 2010 6:36 pm

I got teary-eyed when I saw his wife's reaction to his new voice. I do wish I can one day find someone that will stick with me through the hard times, not matter how bad they get, and I do hope that I could do the same in return.
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Post by Vivacious J » Wed Mar 03, 2010 6:43 pm

Epistemophobia wrote: I'm just looking at possible factors.

If I were in her situation I don't see why I would leave.
For one, it would be cruel. When something like this happens people feel obligated to stand by their partner. Chaz seems to be extra-equipped at not letting this ruin the connection that they have and vice versa.
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Post by Vivacious J » Wed Mar 03, 2010 6:51 pm

Loose Seal wrote:I got teary-eyed when I saw his wife's reaction to his new voice. I do wish I can one day find someone that will stick with me through the hard times, not matter how bad they get, and I do hope that I could do the same in return.
I seriously question whether I am cut out for a real marriage based on all the "right" values like Roger/Chaz. I have never truly felt that an unconditional friendship type of love was within the realm of possibly for me.

Anyway, Oprah and Ebert used to date! Didn't know that until those clips.
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Post by MadMan » Wed Mar 03, 2010 7:39 pm

I like Ebert. Always have, always will. But I can't stand Oprah.
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Post by The Last Baron » Wed Mar 03, 2010 7:40 pm

Epistemophobia wrote:I don't know. I'm not as accomplished as Ebert. There's less reason to stick with me. But at that age, maybe.
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Post by Vivacious J » Wed Mar 03, 2010 7:46 pm

MadMan wrote:I like Ebert. Always have, always will. But I can't stand Oprah.
I'm neutral to positive on my perception of O. She does do some good things with some of her money and seems like a decent person. I don't watch her show, read her publications or follow her cult though.
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Post by MadMan » Wed Mar 03, 2010 7:48 pm

I know she does. I think its more that I'm mad at her for forcing crappy Dr. Phil upon the world, plus the fact that house wives really pay way too much attention to what she says. 'Course that isn't really her fault, though.
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Post by Sonechka » Wed Mar 03, 2010 10:49 pm

Flak wrote: I've had a polar bear all my life so there is hope for you.
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His name is Snowy.
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Post by Blevo » Thu Mar 04, 2010 5:31 pm

Has actual love become such a rare commodity that those who express it are some sort of revolutionary pioneers? My wife would do this for me and I would do it for her, no question about it.
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Post by Sonechka » Thu Mar 04, 2010 9:15 pm

Blevo wrote:Has actual love become such a rare commodity that those who express it are some sort of revolutionary pioneers? My wife would do this for me and I would do it for her, no question about it.
Yeah this. I watched the videos and was like, so? I would do what she does without thinking about it.
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Post by Vivacious J » Fri Mar 05, 2010 12:43 am

Blevo wrote:Has actual love become such a rare commodity that those who express it are some sort of revolutionary pioneers? My wife would do this for me and I would do it for her, no question about it.
Mainly I posted it to show what a positive guy Ebert is. It would suck to lose your voice, never be able to eat or drink again, and look deformed.

The love thing is another issue. That's wonderful that you are in such loving relationships.
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